Dirty Talk: A Beginner’s Guide on What to Say During Sex

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Enter erotic author Jacqueline Jillinghoff, who has already contributed three exquisite stories to our site. Out of the blue, she offered to do some editing for Juicy Secrets after I bemoaned my work load in a story comment. Honestly, I wasn’t fishing for assistance, but wasn’t about to say no, either – especially not to someone who unquestionably had the writer’s chops that the task required. «It’s all about telling your partner how much of a turn-on it is for you to know that you are turning them on,» Eros says. «The best way to show this is not by just saying what you want or plan to do or how you feel, but the ‘why’ behind it. Getting to the ‘why’ really helps add so much more sexual detail.» With some basic education around sexting etiquette (and a little dash of confidence), you’ll be ready to hit send on the spiciest of texts in no time.

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Marin suggests trying to read either already written erotica or what you wrote down out loud to yourself in the mirror. It’s a great exercise in getting comfortable with the vulnerability of vocalizing your desires from the comfort of your own company. Our aim is to bring all lesbians together on whole website and make things a little easier for people wanting to make friends online.

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Break it down into nouns, verbs, adjectives, and whatever else you find yourself gravitating towards. If you’re having a tough time thinking of anything, use pre-written examples and lists as jumping-off points. Want more clever culture writing beamed directly to your inbox? Sign up here for the twice-weekly Click Click Click newsletter.

In addition, my editing work pile was bigger than ever. And most of the stories were good – too good to pass up. «When it comes to sex, there is nothing better than igniting someone’s imagination,» he shares.

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• “I feel like I have so much control over the woman [when using a strap-on] and it usually makes them feel really good,” she says.
• When it comes to sexual fantasies or igniting intimacy throughout the week, Eros knows a thing or two about how to bring it to life, even through texting your partner.
• Some people are good with just a fingertip and others want your whole fist.
• It’s a great exercise in getting comfortable with the vulnerability of vocalizing your desires from the comfort of your own company.
• A lot of the times, you might find yourself enjoying being called things by your lover that you wouldn’t like in any other context.

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Or rehash old memories of the best sexual experiences you’ve had IRL, whether with your current partner or a previous one (though of course be conscientious of omitting details that could spark jealousy). The exercise above has already given you a base for creating your very own dirty talk word bank. A word bank is a list of your preferred naughty verbiage, whether words or phrases, that you can pull from to take the pressure off figuring it out in the heat of the moment. «But I can use language to describe what I love about how they feel in my arms, the way they smell, the experience of them tasting me.» In the era of social-distancing, words have become one of our best replacements for physical intimacy. That’s especially true when it comes to dirty talk, whether it’s done over the phone, sexting, or video chat.

In my own experiences, I’ve focused a lot on bringing women to orgasm. I wouldn’t stop what I was doing until she at least appeared to be satiated, orgasm or not. I realize now that I often rely on maneuvers that men have used with me, and the women seem to enjoy them. “[Sex between women] tends to be more about exploration of bodies,” Aryka concludes. Clean your sex toys after every time you have sex. Realize that lesbian bodies come in many forms (including pre-surgery trans women.) Ask your partner how their genitals like to be touched and how you can validate their gender identity in the bedroom.

«It’s never a bad idea to incorporate more erotic language and communication into your sex life, especially now.» Are you feeling bored and a little bit lonely, Log into chat and see who you will meet today, There are lots of people all willing to talk to you with profiles so you can see peoples interests and hobbies, gender and age. Find the perfect match and start engaging in great new conversations. Lesbian chat really is a great way to meet more people in your life and get to know people from all over the world including where you are from. We’ve gathered up tips from cis and trans queer women of different ages, races, and sexual styles. Of course, you don’t have to be a lesbian to have «lesbian sex.» You just need two women.